What Women Want

I believe all women have a certain trait they find attractive in a man.

The attractive man usually captivates women like honey does to bees.

It’s hard to figure out exactly what women look for, as we know it varies on so many levels. Interestingly enough, some women really don’t have a clue about what they find attractive.

I do, however, believe that there are common threads that seem to be latent to most guys. Even though women are attracted to different traits in a man, women have common threads about an attractive man because the threads can be found in each woman and by observing, men can understand women better.


Laughing out Loud

There is something about making a woman laugh that creates an immediate attraction.

When it is genuine, and not forced, women can appreciate an attractive man who can tickle their funny bones.

Maryam Muhammad said she finds, “sense of humor and persona” to be attractive traits. 

Furthermore, this can apply to all types of women. Author Martha Kennerson said, “Confidence, strength, a great sense of humor and nice window dressing wouldn’t hurt. Lol! I’m lucky, my boo has all those things.” 

Research has shown this to be accurate as well. According to Kate Devlin from the Telegraph, a new study shows that women think that funny men are smarter and more likely to be honest than their more dour counterparts.

Kristofor McCarty who led the study said, “A quick browse of lonely-hearts ads will confirm that women look for a good sense of humor in a potential partner – our research may explain why this is the case.”


Mental level

Speaking of being smarter, women really appreciate an attractive man who can stimulate their mind.

We can even see this now in pop culture with shows like “The Big Bang Theory.” Seemingly, educated men have a beautiful way of connecting with women. It doesn’t require anything but adequate mental stimulation.

Samantha Vallejo said, “I really appreciate a man who can teach me something and give me fulfillment in a relationship. I just think it is really attractive when a man can do those things for me.”

Lawanda Cooks said, “Personality; his mindset has to be positive and goal oriented.”

Like the old saying goes, “A mind is a terrible thing to waste.”



Physical level

It is no secret that women like a man with a nice body, just as much as men appreciate a woman with a nice physique.  So, you definitely want to make sure you keep a well-fit body.

This will benefit both your love life, as well as other aspects of your life, which will then feel more fulfilling.

Your physical appearance should be kept on a clean and neat style. There are many affordable gyms now where you can sign up and enhance your physique.

By taking care of these things, it will communicate to women that you understand the importance and discipline that comes with keeping your physical level on point.

This is what most guys forget when it comes to being an attractive man.



One thing I can say is that all of these traits seem to stem from a positive place. We see that the attributes of an attractive man can vary on so many levels.  

By using your sense of humor, you can definitely spark attraction in a creative way. By stimulating a woman’s mind, you can teach her things in a way that will enhance the way she thinks. Lastly, by taking great care of your body, you can present yourself in an attractive way that balances out your attraction.

In the end, you will have a much higher chance in being the attractive man many women seek to want to meet.

Like the old saying goes, “When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you.”

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