Projecting confidence can make the difference when it comes to pulling the woman of your dreams.

Game 101: The Art of Pulling Women

By Bruce Brown

The Re Up

Although many of you may consider yourself an “expert” at pulling women (gaining the interest of women), it never hurts to elevate your game. But in order to do that, one must be very honest and accurate about the level of game he has.

One way to do this is to look at your results from pulling women.  The women you pull are a reflection of you and your mouthpiece. So if you are not getting the results you seek, maybe it is time to revamp your skills in pulling women.

By doing this, you will also better your chances at obtaining the woman you seek.  Instead of re-inventing the wheel, let’s look at some steps that will improve your quality and results of women.


Stop venting on Facebook and Twitter

Social media has enabled a tsunami of people to know what’s going on in your life. Anytime you update your status, you leave yourself open to bad advice, which can create more problems than solutions.

Instead, turn some of that energy into good use and get out of the house. Visit some places where you will increase your chances of pulling the women you desire.  As a man, venting online about your “women problems” will only lead to more heartache and embarrassment from peers.

Social media in general should not be used as a soundboard for pity parties, whatsoever. Doing so will only let the world see how much game you “don’t” have.


Upgrade your conversation

By upgrading your conversation skills, you will improve the results and quality of women that share your world.

Most guys fail miserably when it comes to striking up an interesting conversation.  The thing is it is not what you say, but how you say things that count the most. In other words, you have got to be confident.

As a television host, Kenneth Ware, Jr. would say “Either you have it or don’t.  Women are drawn to confidence, especially the confidence in your voice.” 

The inflection and tone of your voice should always breathe confidence and calmness. Your conversation will go smoothly and will lead to future conversations if done correctly.

Furthermore, you should always upgrade your vocabulary so that you can pull women from all walks of life.   


Don’t sell yourself short


If you sell yourself short, women will sell you short too.

Instead, strengthen your weaknesses and play up your strengths. A confident mentality will help you feel better about yourself and the woman you are interacting with.

Venting on social media, is cool if you had a rough day, but nowadays doing such will only make matters worse for you. If you don’t believe me, take a look at the number of times you posted a cry for help. Numbers do not lie.

If your conversations with women have been dry, now is the time to step your game up. In the words of the late Michael Jackson, “Take a look at yourself, and make that change.”

Brown is a contributing writer for Regal Magazine, a publication dedicated to the African American community

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